For Parents and Caregivers
We understand that this can be a difficult and uncertain time for you and your family. Here is some information to help you prepare you for the visit to our center:
Before Your Visit
WHAT TO DO
Make sure your child feels safe and believed. "It is not your fault", "You did not do anything wrong", and “I believe you” are excellent statements to tell your child during this time. Your job as a caregiver is to be a strong support for your child
It is best that your child is prepared for their visit to our center. Explain that they are coming to a place to talk about something that may have happened to them. For example, "I'm going to bring you to talk to someone who is trained to talk with kids and teens about (what happened to you/what you saw) at Uncle Sam's house." Encourage your child that it is okay for them to talk with us, and you want them to be honest.
Remember, that you also need support through this time, so make sure to take your time and rely on other trustworthy adults to process your own feelings.
WHAT NOT TO DO
Be careful to avoid big emotional responses in front of your child. It is normal to have a big rollercoaster of emotions at this time, but remember that your child may also be experiencing big emotions of their own. It is important that you, as their caregiver, stay calm and receptive to whatever their response may be.
Try not to pry or ask lots of questions to your child. We understand that allegations are often shocking and upsetting, but remember that it is not your job to investigate. Allow your child to come to you if they want to talk with you about the situation, but do not feel like you need to get details.
Don’t hesitate to reach out to our team if you have any questions or concerns. You have likely received a phone call from our team regarding scheduling, and you can call or text that number if there is anything you need.
At the Child Advocacy Center
WHEN YOU ARRIVE
You will be greeted by our Family Advocate. They will introduce you to the center and explain the process. Their role is to provide support, crisis intervention, and resources to meet your specific needs.
You may fill out some paperwork, which helps our team to better serve your family
You will also meet the Forensic Interviewer, who is specially trained to speak with your child in a way that is trauma informed and developmentally appropriate.
Get your own time with the Family Advocate, for support and help with any possible needs or questions you and your family may have, while your child talks with the interviewer.
DURING THE FORENSIC INTERVIEW
Your child will speak with the Forensic Interviewer. They will have a conversation observed by our investigative team members.
You will get your own time with the Family Advocate. This is an opportunity for you to receive support while your child talks with the interviewer.
AFTER THE INTERVIEW
You will get a chance to talk with the Multidisciplinary Team (MDT) involved with your case. You can use this time to ask questions and share any concerns you may have.
The team will advise you on the next steps in the investigation, and the Family Advocate will ensure that you have everything that you need before you leave.
After Your Visit
Following your visit to the center, our Family Advocate will maintain contact to provide appropriate information throughout the investigation, and support as needed.
Contact will be made according to the needs of the family and prosecution timelines. This follow-up contact from our Family Advocate is not mandatory, and you may opt out anytime. We are here to meet the needs of you and your family.